I’m not up on the latest modelling technology but out of the ones I’ve tried over the years the blackface cleans is where they fail.
Real tube amps are still my preference. I’ve never considered modeling sims 1:1 equivalent to tube amps for various reasons.
The specific technology matters. The speakers matter. The way the signal gets amplified matters. But, without getting into the details, modeling is not the same experience as a tube amps for me as a player.
Modeling through FRFR is like a miked amp through PA. It doesn’t sound the same as a direct signal from the amp speakers. But, since the audience typically hears a band through PA speakers, it’s pretty easy to give a live audience a nearly identical auditory experience with top shelf, modern modeling.
I have used Fender profiles through ToneX, into a Fryette Power Station, fed into real guitar cabs. It can often feel and sound very close to the real deal. Certainly, it’s good enough to fool a live audience, or even professional ears in a recording. Yet, a Tonex capture is a different paradigm than a tube amp for multiple, specific reasons.
Sometimes, the benefits of digital modeling outweigh the disadvantages. Tube amps come with their own downsides in various situations.
In my case, I rarely play live at this point. I mainly play for my own enjoyment. I use both tube amps and digital modeling. I’m able to find inspiration from both paradigms. Bottom line, you should use the gear that inspires you to play.