For sake of not enraging my wife, daughters, relatives, and a very motivated mostly female segment of the population.... I just accept the fact that these songs and albums weren't written for me as a grown ass man... or as an aging dinosaur music adult. And that's okay. It's not like they're burning Prince albums or deleting Van Halen and Jamiroquai from the interwebz.
I also don't "get" TikTok dances, overly smoothed influencers who are supposed to be promoting products but the sound of their voices grates on my old man nerves like someone scraping ice off their windshield with a metal spatula. I will never attend a K-pop concert as I know I would feel as lost and confused as my grandparents in a RageAgainst mosh pit.